冷~

当人觉得冷的时候

就自然地会觉得有种寂寞的感觉

当你寂寞的时候

你会觉得空荡荡，冷清清

冷，似乎就和这些相对应的...

就突然想到，就随笔和大家分享 :P

寂寞孤单的时候会显得特别冷....

所以都会避开寒冷的夜晚...

躲进被子，让自己的温度，为自己取暖... 晚安~

《依赖的重量》

依赖，

到底要如何才不满溢

要如何才能适当的给你...

我的爱？

无论你是否相信人本来是雌雄同体，

终生寻觅另一半这个神话，

两个人之所以相爱，是一种配合。

譬如说，喜欢依赖的，会爱上喜欢被依赖的那个。

　　依赖也许不是一种好东西，除非你还是个婴儿。

太依赖的小孩令人担心，太依赖的成人被认为不成熟。

然而，正因为我们长大后发现仅可依赖的只有自己，

所以才渴望依赖别人。

　　爱是一种依赖，我们想要成为另一个人的孩子。

　　成为孩子，意味着得到温暖、照顾、食物和柔情。

终其一生，每个人都渴望可以得到这些美好的东西，

在有需要的时候，就会被喂哺和拥抱。

　　当那个人说：“你太依赖我了！我吃不消！”

那么，他显然不是那个和你分裂了的另一半，只能再去寻觅。

　　如果那个人沮丧地说：“为什么你好像不需要我？”

他说的，就是感觉不到你的依赖。

那么，你们的爱是不圆满的。

　　我们口里说自己喜欢比较独立的另一半，然而，

假如他独立到完全不需要依赖你，

自己就可以制造温暖、照顾、柔情和食物，

那么，你们还拿什么来恋爱？

　　我们都知道适当的依赖是一种信任和亲昵的表现，

去回应这种依赖就是爱。

只是，我们往往无法准确地决定依赖的重量。

太轻了，对方没有安全感；太重了，又轮到自己没有安全感。

要有多重才不算重？才能够自持？

来自.....张小娴 《依赖的重量》

转载自

http://bobobara.blogbus.com/logs/33314206.html

✸ 类似爱情 ✸

《類似愛情》

 

詞/易家揚     
曲/小安    

我站在屋頂 黃昏的光影
我聽見 愛情光臨的聲音

微妙的反應 忽然想起你
這默契 感覺像是一個謎

我們兩個人 陌生又熟悉
愛似乎來的很小心翼翼

我想問問你 是不是相信
愛來了 這種滋味很美麗

心裡有點急 也有點生氣
你不要放棄行不行
我在過馬路 你人在哪裡
這條路希望跟你走下去(這條路應該如何走下去)

最近我和你 
都有一樣的心情
那是一種類似愛情的東西
在同一天 發現愛 在接近
那是愛 並不是也許

可不要忘記 
你要相信你自己
給我一些類似愛情的回應
這個世界 很無情 謝謝你
說一聲 
愛妳 
我很想聽




有沒有人，
會在進入別人的部落格的時候
去聆聽別人部落格裡放的歌曲呢？
還是一進入，就馬上找出播放器
然後將它按停....

大多數人會把喜歡的歌曲放在部落格裡
或許是因為那歌曲對他們有意義
感動了他們
或者是目前最適合他們心情的歌曲...
不然也不會毫無意義的把歌曲歌詞po上來吧...

幸好，這幾天好友們的部落格裡都放了些好聽的音樂
讓我獲益不淺，
特喜歡這兩首...
>>黃鴻升 - 不屑
>>Olivia Ong  Fade Away...

所以，下次你們進入別人部落格的時候，
會不會去聽他們放的歌曲呢？

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忘記了在何時，這首歌一直都在我腦海縈繞
好像是上次不見手機的時候吧...
好久了呢.... = =

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那麼,
你

懂我了嗎？

If It Kills Me....

do take some time to listen to the song..
is beautiful n meaningful...
is from my heart...
if u can feel me..

❤ If It Kills Me ❤
by Jason Mraz




Hello, tell me you know
Yeah, you figured me out
Something gave it away
It would be such a beautiful moment
To see the look on your face
To know that I know that you know now

And baby that's a case of my wishful thinking
You know nothing
Well you and I
Why, we go carrying on for hours on end
We get along much better
Than you and your boyfriend


Well all I really wanna do is love you
A kind much closer than friends use
But I still can't say it after all we've been through
And all I really want from you is to feel me
As the feeling inside keeps building
And I will find a way to you if it kills me
If it kills me

How long, can I go on like this,
Wishing to kiss you,
Before I rightly explode?
This double life I lead isn't healthy for me
In fact it makes me nervous
If I get caught I could be risking it all
Cause maybe there's a lot that I miss
In case I'm wrong

Well all I really wanna do is love you
A kind much closer than friends use
But I still can't say it after all we've been through
And all I really want from you is to feel me
As the feeling inside keeps building
And I will find a way to you if it kills me
If it kills me

If I should be so bold
I'd ask you to hold my heart in your hand
I'd tell you from the start how I've longed to be your man
But I never said I would
I guess I'm gonna miss my chance again

All I really wanna do is love you
A kind much closer than friends use
But I still can't say it after all we've been through
And all I really want from you is to feel me
As the feeling inside keeps building
And I will find a way to you if it kills me
If it kills me
If it kills me
I think it might kill me

And all I really want from you is to feel me
Yeah, the feeling inside keeps building
I'll find a way to you if it kills me
If it kills me
It might kill me


我所想要的就是愛你 ，
是比朋友更靠近的關係 ，
但經過了這麼多我還是說不出...
而我要的就是你能感受得到我，
心裡的感覺越來越強烈 ，
而我會找尋我的方式 ，
如果這感覺即將把我淹沒...

۞•••♥ Missing You ♥•••۞

《Missing You》

dedicated to those who i love...

❤

missing you..

miss the one i love

miss his face

miss his voice

miss about that he always take care of me

miss about he always bring delicious food to me

buy me my favorite foods

miss about that when i'm sick ,

he always the 1st by my side

buy me medicine

help me rub medicine oil

and even when i fainted because of sick

he is the one who carried me up...

he juz like a guardian to me

when he is beside

i will just feel a sense of security

thought sometimes we had fight

we quarrel about different opinion

we fight for the tv controler for our own favortie tv show

but at last...

i stil love him...

thanks to him that take care of me such a long time

YOU always live in my heart

:)

juz like ur name SUNNY ,

juz like a warm sun

gave us the strength to growth...

i love u

dad...

❤

missing you all..

miss the one i love

miss those moment we had before

miss every birthday little party we had

miss those silly moment we done

miss when we keep n keep talking n loudly

miss the time we sweat together , we shed our tears together(did we ?)

miss we sharing our funny n interesting experience

miss we all going out in a huge gang

miss that we doing crazy things

miss we share about ghost story

though soon we gonna go for our own future pathway

maybe we gonna apart for hundreds or thousands mile away

or maybe

we wont meet each others again

a meet of us

juz like a gift

no matter how

i will cherish it

miss it alot

and thanks

for making part of journey in my life

so happy n memorable

thanks

SUNSHINE

❤

missing you

miss the one i love

miss ur smile

miss the "super duper" words u keep using

miss your silly faces

miss ur little remind of wat must do after wash hair

and eveything all about you..

I Miss You

❤

missing someone

is a happiness things

that u can recall all those sweet n happy memories

that will warm ur heart , feel love

though it was past and non-existed

but something just will live n save in our heart

forever....

~ Already Gone ~

Kelly Clarkson

《 Already Gone 》

Remember all the things we wanted

Now all our memories they're haunted

We were always meant to say goodbye

Even with our fists held high

It never would've worked out right

We were never meant for do or die

I didn't want us to burn out

I didn't come here to hold you, now I can't stop

I want you to know that it doesn't matter

Where we take this road someone's gotta go

And I want you to know , you couldn't have loved me better

But I want you to move on , so I'm already gone

Looking at you makes it harder

But I know that you'll find another

That doesn't always make you want to cry

Started with a perfect kiss then we could feel the poison set in

Perfect couldn't keep this love alive

You know that I love you so, I love you enough to let you go

I want you to know that it doesn't matter

Where we take this road someone's gotta go

And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better

But I want you to move on , so I'm already gone

I'm already gone, already gone

You can't make it feel right when you know that it's wrong

I'm already gone, already gone

There's no moving on so I'm already gone

Already gone, already gone, already gone

Already gone, already gone, already gone, yeah

Remember all the things we wanted

Now all our memories they're haunted

We were always meant to say goodbye

I want you to know that it doesn't matter

Where we take this road someone's gotta go

And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better

But I want you to move on so I'm already gone

I'm already gone, already gone

You can't make it feel right when you know that it's wrong

I'm already gone, already gone

There's no moving on , so I'm already gone

a nice song from Kelly ,

she sang it with passion , and with her powerful voice

it is just amazing !

here is a Acoustic version of the song

i personally love this version :)

enjoy...